Wowowow. We did not know this would cause so much distress! Y'all, your body your choice. But, if you're still sitting there like no, but please help me, here are a few preferences (preferences, not rules. more than anything all we want is for you to feel like you).

Earth tones! We love the earth, we love her tones.

Thinking pants is your vibe? Cool - I'm calling it act like you're going to a Filson convention for upper management, Justin is calling it "earth tone bros". We'll attach some images here and you will be like "oh, yes, I get it." Also, you know I love a pantsuit.

A dress more your thing? Love that for you. It is SO hard to make a mood board for the bazillion dresses that exist in the world. Think earth tones, think whatever you look in the mirror and you're like "dang, I feel GOOD."

You will be on the grass, you will be on dirt, you will be inside - you will be by a campfire so if your outfit is a dry clean only thing that has been passing as clean for a few times this is probably the hang that will put it over the edge. There is no need to be super formal, but it is a special occasion! A once in a lifetime one! So dress how you feel best (and comfortable!) because you know your girl is a mem girl and there will be mem capturing and we will be admiring your beauty for many moons to come.

No. obvs not. we love you too much. if you are staying in the area Saturday night and aren't tired of us / too tired, we'll be convening at a picnic shelter we've rented out at Lake Casitas, a ten minute drive from the venue, late Sunday morning for consumption of some hair of the dog and food and sunshine.

The name(s) on your invite are our intended guests for the celebration.

Despite this being a Girl Scout camp, with the exception of our flower girl, ring bearer and sweet new lil nephew (also the birthday boy!!! his first one!!!) this event is scout free.If you have a fresh baby you are scared to leave with anyone and that would prevent you from coming, please reach out to us to chat through it.

If you have a significant other that we've missed a) wow, been a while let's hang and b) please reach out and we will let you know if we're able to accomodate additional guests at that time.

We have limited camping spots available on site for the night of the wedding. If you are interested in camping (BYOTent and sleeping supplies) please note that in the reservation form and we will let you know if confirmed once we have an idea of how many people are down for the cause.

A few Ojai hotel favorites are Ojai Rancho Inn, The Capri, Hummingbird Inn and Hotel El Roblar.

We’d like to highlight that the camp is between Ojai and Ventura, so when looking for hotel options beyond this, both areas are just a short 15 minute-ish journey to the venue. We’re also fond of The Waypoint, a cute spot made up of all vintage trailers, in Ventura.

As another tip, most hotels in Ojai will have a two night minimum, while you're likely able to find a one night stay in Ventura.

There is parking on site right in front of the lodge. There should be plenty for all, but should you find yourself searching in the lot, there is parking just outside of the gate along Sulphur Mountain Rd.